When the truth comes out, The puzzle fits into play, and you see the whole picture. At first, you wonder what it may be, and you ponder of its image day and night. However, when the vision focuses into a grand image of things, then you realize , ah this is why. As artistic as this may sound, i'm talking about a rather negative thing.
If you were to have an argument to no avail, then later in the peak of the battle you find out everything you need to know. Then comes the peace offering from the enemy. At first the battle was allusive and very murky. However, during the high point of the battle, You have learned all there is to know about your enemy. Then, How will you ever accept such a empty peace offering, you cannot.
-Easy terms-
There was a girl that asked a song request, and she was not answered. Took it upon herself to throw her anger at me, but in a passive aggressive way, so I don't notice. Of course I noticed, it was deliberate, unnecessary, and hurtful. I accused her of being mean, and being unkind... she denied my accusation, saying she is indeed a fan, and all she wants is my happiness. So I TESTED her, and Provoked her to get her a little bit angry... Her true nature slips out.
She tells me everything I needed to know about her. She spilled out her past anger towards me, and how she always thought I was a liar, and how she was furious at the fact I didn't sing her song. Through these type of tests, I was told by a wisdom girl I can determine who is for me and against me, and she was DEFINITELY against me. After she is was caught red handed, she dared to come back with an empty apology, which was filled with her self righteousness. Still defending herself, and denying what she has done. Case is Closed. and Good Riddance.
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I don’t have all the perfect words to say to you on this. The only things I can offer you are great BIG HUGS and a shoulder to lean on. You still got us, your loyal fans. Need I remind you that you are Fanazulous! I thought of this song also. FIGHTING!!
ReplyDeleteI Hope You Dance by Lee Ann Womack
I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
May you never take one single breath for granted,
GOD forbid love ever leave you empty handed,
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin',
Lovin' might be a mistake but it's worth makin',
Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to sellin' out reconsider,
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along,
Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder where those years have gone.)
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
Dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance..
(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along
Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder where those years have gone)
all i can say is......dont waste yo time with bullshit, it takes too much time out of YOUR PERSONAL LIFE to deal with.
ReplyDeleteForget her....Soundz like another HATERRRRRRRRRR. Ugh. Those types are such a WASTE of time and....SPACE.
ReplyDeleteYeah totally agree with everyone else Tenchi. Haters are there to drain you of your happiness, nothing more. Keep your head up, and keep dealing with things the way you do, because it's inspiring to the rest of us struggling out here!
ReplyDeleteAja Aja! Fighting!!
I'm not going to comment on the situation for long because you have obviously said your peace. I just want to say that even though she hurt your feelings I still think you should forgive her and tell her you appreciate her for who she is despite her negativity. For someone to attack someone they don't even know like that (unfortunately you) they must be going threw something or have issues they're dealing with. In that case they really need a kind soul, and I'm a firm believer that kindness can out weigh any amount of negativity. So with that being said Tenchijk I'm sorry your feelings got hurt, but I think you have good heart and will make the right decision. As for the girl(if you happen to read this) I hope you have the courage next time to talk your anger out in a positive manner because negativity is never the way to go especially if you hurt another person's feelings in the process. Also if you are going threw something praying is good because God will always lead you out of the darkness, and if it means anything until you can get to it yourself or even if your scared I will pray for you. Bye :)
ReplyDeleteLivingLife, I agree. No matter what the situation is, Tenchi you should forgive her. God forgives us, He loves us. We should do the same.
ReplyDeleteThere nothing much I can do after I forgave her 3 times. 3 times a charm, and Its time to move on. Live life , and stewvell... Just like anyone else, I have my reaching point. Only recently, its been easier to reach that point because i'm getting a bit more frustrated. However, in all fairness I did forgive her, just told her to move on.
ReplyDeleteIt's just like that saying "What's in the darkness comes to the light." In this situation it is so true. You had a inclination that she wasn't for you. then she proved you right. I felt for you when she said those mean things to you. Even though it was hurtful to you. You handled your own, just another thing I admire about you. Don't feel guilty about not singing her a song that she kept pestering you about. We can't please evereybody. (We can please some of the people some of the time, but we cannot please all of the people all of the time")So don't even try only as you feel the need to.
ReplyDeleteIt's good that you forgave her. And if you feel the need to move on, by all means do so. I use to think if you forgive someone that wronged you they were getting off easy but I found that not to be true. Forgiving is not doing it for them but doing it for yourself. It frees you from harboring grudges and hurts and such...
I'm certain of it that she didn't get off too easy. She's probably kicking herself everyday for the things she said. I just hope she's learned a lesson from this. You just can't go aroung shooting your mouth off at people nothing ever gets solved. It's pointless to argue.