tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post5731955181565718060..comments2014-03-13T09:14:31.793-07:00Comments on TenchiJK: Angry Black Woman Pushes Black Man Into Fire PitTenchiJKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10787951971336051500noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post-88166660967047520492010-02-19T06:22:16.137-08:002010-02-19T06:22:16.137-08:00It's the same sh*t, just on a different day.It's the same sh*t, just on a different day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post-57837372072074248852010-02-17T14:19:50.804-08:002010-02-17T14:19:50.804-08:00I understand your anger and where you're comin...I understand your anger and where you're coming from. As a black female, though, I honestly wouldn't have found it in me to care that much. I mean, firstly, that dude had to have done some serious searching to find the one clip he thought would turn you off from black women, so I guess he didn't have anything better to do with his time. <br /><br />Secondly, and this could be overly optimistic of me, but I like to believe that anyone who would see that clip, White, Black, Asian, etc., would be able to form an opinion of the woman, solely based on her actions, but that they'd also be able to take it with a grain of salt. The thing about video clips is that you never really get an idea of the whole context the clip was taken from. Plus, the clip shows both the Hispanic man and the black woman in a negative light. I like to believe that people would be able to recognize that this behavior cannot be hastily generalized and applied to black women as a whole, but that it's more than likely the product of gross editing and it's also the behavior of one woman who, black or not, shouldn't be acting so...rude and ignorant, for lack of a better word.<br /><br />But yeah, your anger was definitely understandable. It's nice to know that Black women do have someone standing in their corner whenever people bring up crap like this as an example as to why we're all so "worthless" or "undesirable". <br /><br />Kudos!<br />-BeccaA Work in Progresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10983411576481413340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post-13692193827655984182010-02-16T23:44:31.628-08:002010-02-16T23:44:31.628-08:00I completely understand your anger on the matter a...I completely understand your anger on the matter and would agree with most of your points except one:<br />“The thing i hate the most is , the media, a.k.a rich ass white folks target the black women who are on the brink. The ones who are done lost there minds and THEN put their damn camera in their faces.”<br /><br />Trust me when I say, as a white person, that rich-ass white folks are *barely* the only people who target others (at their worst) to make money. And even if that were the case (for example, most likely the MTV executives behind ‘The Jersey Shore’), we have to understand that it’s just reality TV. I’m Italian-American, and people are surprised when I tell them that I’m not offended by ‘The Jersey Shore’ at all because, the way I see it, if certain people are stupid enough to believe that eight people on a reality show is representative of a WHOLE ethnic group, then I’m going to ignore those people for being stupid as fuck.<br /><br />People are always going to be ignorant and not question what they see in the media—but that’s not our problem. You can’t fight ignorance with anger, because the difference between being uninformed and being ignorant is the fact that ignorant people ARE uninformed but REFUSE to be taught any different. It’s literally like talking to a wall.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post-81010707214676393552010-02-16T19:59:22.128-08:002010-02-16T19:59:22.128-08:00Whenever I think of black women in the media, I al...Whenever I think of black women in the media, I always think of two things. Maury and BET. It's like black women are only shown in shows that degrade us and it's just really fucked up. Anyone with a brain would be pissed off to see someone be treated in a such a way. But what I hate the most is that there is no one stopping these stereotypes. I mean the only black female role models are Oprah and Michelle Obama. Other than that, who else is there to look up to? Why are we usually subjected to being either loud and overpowering or hoes that always found in a rapper's video. We should be more than that, but I don't think people care about what's true anymore. They really only want to hear what they want and see what makes them feel better about themselves.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12750913424192543417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post-37116473821116345162010-02-16T16:01:42.182-08:002010-02-16T16:01:42.182-08:00I agree 100% and I dont think your opinion is clou...I agree 100% and I dont think your opinion is clouded at all. Imagine this, a black woman puts a white man on blast? Now how do you think THAT shit would have turned out??? I think people need to open their damn eyes and start looking at people as individuals not robots that all do the same thing. This pertains not only to black women but men and women of many other races. This really needs to stop but sadly there will always be that handful of people that will act like brainless, emotionless, douche bags. And that just gets on my nerves. All in all we just gotta keep our heads high and keep on doing what we do.Christellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14338916283183616444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post-46799862280431080402010-02-16T13:23:36.743-08:002010-02-16T13:23:36.743-08:00Wow. lol yeah, I kinda agree. When he was telling ...Wow. lol yeah, I kinda agree. When he was telling the first girl about what the other girl was saying, yeah, he was snitching, but he was just letting her know. I did not like how he was trying to persuade her into confronting the other woman about it though... If she didn't want to then leave her alone, its really none of your buisness, you know? (See, so they arnt exactly portraying all african american women to be crazy. The first black girl was big enough to just let it go. Stick and Stones right? lol) Now, because he got busted talking about that chick and she over heard him, he really had no choice but to explain himself... but he should have just left it at that. And she should have too. But because they both wanted to prove who has bigger balls (and that's obviously the woman. lol) things got a bit out of hand. But its really sad because now we see this all the time and it's really not so much just african americans being portrayed in a bad light... its more so stupid people being put in stupid situations acting... stupidly. lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7231847430774673611.post-26326014506308245902010-02-16T12:50:21.834-08:002010-02-16T12:50:21.834-08:00First, I think you should post the link o the vid....First, I think you should post the link o the vid. <br /><br />Second, I understand what you mean. My sister brought up the show SNAPPED, which as far as I have seen has a majority of white women losing their minds. All women have their moments and for folks to black list the darker skinned woman because of her stereotype is ignorant.<br /><br />Third, You never said all black women are great but that they are all beautiful. So why does he send a link about black woman at her worst? If a person doesn't admire a type of woman and another does why mind what someone else likes just embrace you. <br /><br /> Now let me say my own piece about his thoughts on black women. What defines a man as masculine? Not all men are masculine some are feminine esp. in this day and age there is a growing population of feminine men. Not all feminine men are gay and I wouldn't outcast a feminine man who likes me just because he lacks the normal amount of masculinity. If he keeps up this horrid pretense he'll end up one unlikeable individual.<br /><br />Lastly, Tenchi thanks for seeing this from both sides. I enjoy your thoughts keep posting (without so many swear words). <br /><br />TempressTempresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14038517471034475791noreply@blogger.com